Frank Gilliland wrote:
On 23 Aug 2005 12:41:50 -0700, "an_old_friend"
wrote in .com:

the question still stands

when you are you going to confess to your lies?\


Probably never. After so many years of rationalizing his lies I'm sure
he actually believes that they are justified. I effectively nuked him
with the facts and his response was avoidance. It's been a few years,
but if I remember my Psych 101 correctly he has what you would call
"Narcissistic Personality Disorder"; his false sense of superiority
will never let him fess up, and his need for attention will never let
him shut up. Too bad cause he's obviously a smart guy -- just really
screwed up.

You are more than likely right

OTOH I have found over the years if you keep pressing him on his faults
he tends to be quieter and better behaved